Introduction
Isn’t it a bit strange that the Church celebrates the motherhood of Mary on the first day of the year? Have you ever asked that question to yourself? Why, after celebrating advent waiting for the Christ, and Christmas, welcoming the birth of the Lord, the liturgy now goes back to Mary? Isn’t reflecting about Jesus or the Holy Spirit or even God the father, a more appropriate celebration for today, the first day of the year?
The New Year in the context of Christmas
We may fail to appreciate the real importance and meaning of today’s feast if we don’t look back to what had happened for the past days. Today is the octave of Christmas. [Side notes: There are two very important feasts in the church calendar that are celebrated with octave: Easter and Christmas. These mysteries are of great importance that they are celebrated for eight consecutive days.]
What did we celebrate in Christmas? We celebrated Christ’s birth. One Christmas day a couple of thousand years ago, the son of God was born by a woman named Mary who betrothed to a man named Joseph. Their son was named Jesus, was foretold by an angel, who will be Emmanuel, God is with us. And who among us here do not know the story? All of us; we know the details—virgin birth, birth in a manger in swaddling cloths, angels singing, shepherds and kings or magi visiting to pay homage. We as Christians have been telling this story, passing it on from generation to generation. Some things were added to further enhance the celebrations. Santa Clause, gifts and shopping, and food, and many more; sad to admit that sometimes, we focus more on the trimmings rather than on what really is the essence of the story.
But what is really the essence of the story? One important fact—that God, in his desire to communicate to us and express his love, spoke through the birth of his son. He had to speak through a son because we can neither see with our eyes nor hear with our ears God. God has to become flesh—incarne—literally to become flesh, so that we may perceive what God wants to say. And the word became flesh so that we may understand.
But that happened 2000 years ago. Mary gave birth to the human Jesus on the first Christmas. Last December 25 must be the 2024th Christmas, right? More or less. Today, several thousand years since, God still wishes to communicate to us. Do we need another Mary to give birth to another Jesus? Maybe not the same characters once more, but same story. Jesus still needs to be born. We still need to communicate Jesus to a deaf world, struggling to see and find God. We need to communicate God to everyone more than ever. And it is here where today’s feast becomes significant. I think, more than honoring Mary herself on the first day of the year, we are honoring her motherhood, her theotokos— the mother of God. We honor the birthing, we need to give birth to Jesus. Like Mary, we have to bear and give birth to Jesus wherever we are. Her motherhood is equally a grace and challenge for each one of us.
This is the grace we received when we were baptized. In and through our own humanity, we en-flesh—in-carne—the Lord. In a sense, becoming mothers of our Lord and giving birth to him in our midst is a grace we received. This is our grace—we can do it. In our joys and sorrows, we bring that grace to reality.
But it is also equally a challenge—it’s not easy to give birth to Jesus, to be a bearer of the Lord. How many times can others really see Jesus in us? How many times are people blessed because of us? We know that it is a challenge and often time we retreat run away when called.
And it is particularly significant that if you look back at our celebrations for the past days, the past liturgies tells us the difficulty. On the 25 was Christmas day. The next day, the 26th was the feast of St. Stephen, the first Christian martyr stoned to death. On the 27th was the feast of St. John the evangelist–the writer of the fourth gospel, on the 28th was the celebration of the holy innocents, on the 29th St Thomas Becket–the bishop of Canterbury who was martyred when he stood up against the king and royalty. The eight days of celebration after Christmas was marked my martyrdom. Challenges. One night, I was talking to a Jesuit friend. We entered the seminary together. He said, “No good deeds are left unpunished.” This is the harsh reality of life.
This is what motherhood of Mary means; it is by no way reserved only to Mary, we are graced and challenged to be mothers of Jesus too. Mary was the mother of the human Jesus 2000 years ago; you and I are graced and challenged to give birth to the resurrected Christ today, in our midst–in truly loving one another, in forgiveness, in our generosity, in little deeds of charity.
Let me end with the lyrics of a song written anonymously entitled The Work of Christmas. Let this remind us of theotokos, the motherhood of God.
The Work of Christmas
When the song of angels is stilled,
when the star in the sky is gone
when the kings and princes are home
when the shepherds are back with their flock
the work of Christmas begins.
To find the lost,
to heal the broken
to feed the hungry
free the prisoners
to rebuild nations
to bring peace among brothers (and sisters)
to make music in the heart.
May all of us accept the grace and challenge to give birth to the Emmanuel, the resurrected Christ today, in our midst. Amen.
Homily delivered by Fr. James Gascon, SJ
on New Year’s Eve Mass, The Solemnity of the Mary, Mother of God
31 December 2024
Cenacle Retreat House