TO DIE TO SELF
Homily delivered by Fr. Miguel Gaspe, CSsr
on the Feast of Saint Thérèse Couderc, co-founder of Cenacle Sisters
Holy Family Redemptorist Retreat House, Busay, Cebu City
26 September 2025
A common thread in the stories of most religious founders in the history of the Church is their shared religious experience. It can be experienced through immense joy and gladness. Yet, we also know that even in times of trial and challenge, God’s presence can still be felt. When Therese Couderc was forced to resign from various positions in the Congregation due to false accusations against her, she saw this as an opportunity to hold to her faith and trust in God. It is in these encounters of “deaths” that she was raised to “life”. From this experience, she made the most of it as an opportunity for personal growth and in the mission she was called to serve.
“A grain of wheat that falls to the earth must die to bear fruit.” This is a profound example that Jesus uses to help his disciples understand what it means to follow him. One has to die to self. What does it mean to die to oneself? To die to self is the ability to delve deeper into one’s being, confronting one’s own strengths and weaknesses, while allowing God to penetrate the heart and mind. From this movement, a renewed self emerges, putting behind perspectives that are no longer helpful in our journey. A renewed self that nourishes life around him.
In the past few days in the workshop, we have been taught about the skills required in conducting spiritual direction (SD). However, as we progressed, what we were taught was not only the “hows” of doing SD, but also the “being” of becoming a spiritual director. Later, we realize that to grow in the spiritual life is an experience of a never-ending cycle of discovery, reflection, and surrender. One has to surrender, has to encounter death if one desires to live life to the fullest.
May the spirit of our holy founders and confreres continue to inspire us in the work of bringing all people closer to God. Amen.
