Transforming Gentleness: the Grace of St. Thérèse Couderc
Homily of Fr. Daniel Patrick Huang, SJ on 26 September 2020, Feast of St. ThĆ©rĆØse Couderc in Rome. I hope you donāt mind, but this afternoon, I would like to reflect a little on your Mother, St. ThĆ©rĆØse Couderc, as a water purifier or filter. I realize that itās not a very dignified or poetic image, but I hope that it helps explain what has struck me most these days about St. ThĆ©rĆØse: what I would call her transforming gentleness or her fruitful non-violence. A water purifier. This is not an original image, but one I learned from the spiritual writer Ron Rolheiser when he describes how the suffering of Jesus on the cross takes away the sins of the world. How does Jesus, the grain of wheat who dies, bring forth new life? Rolheiser suggests he does what a water purifier or a water filter does. āIt takes in the water that contains impurities, dirt, toxins and occasional poisons.ā The filter ādoes not simply let the water flow through it.ā It āholds the dirt and toxins inside of itself and gives back only the pure water.ā (1) This is what Jesus does on the cross: he holds in himself, bears in himself, the hatred, envy, anger, and violence of humanity, and instead of simply passing it on, somehow purifies all this in his own person, so that what flows out of him instead is love, graciousness, blessing, forgiveness, peace. Doesnāt this describe too what ThĆ©rĆØse Couderc lived in her sufferings? Reading various accounts of her life, I couldnāt help but be struck by the suffering and humiliation she went through, at the hands of a Jesuit Provincial and her own sisters. Looking back, one can see that Fr. Renaultās decision to replace ThĆ©rĆØse as superior general and foundress with a rich widow who had barely begun novitiate was not only ill advised but actually idiotic! What was he thinking? Till today, the writers I consulted struggle to explain Mother Charlotte Contenetās inexplicable animosity towards ThĆ©rĆØse. I found myself asking: Why didnāt ThĆ©rĆØse fight back? She certainly would have had reason and justice on her side. Or why didnāt she just leave? Why didnāt she just start again, with a group of more congenial companions? Earlier accounts of ThĆ©rĆØse explain her response as humility: ThĆ©rĆØse as āune grande humble.ā This seems to have been what was emphasized in her canonization process 50 years ago. But, as some of your sisters have pointed out (2), these accounts tend to speak of the humility of ThĆ©rĆØse in terms of uncomplaining submission, self-abasement, blind obedience to ecclesiastical authority, usually male. Although there is no doubt that ThĆ©rĆØse was deeply humble, this version of humility sounds suspiciously ideological. The more I reflected, the more I realized that ThĆ©rĆØseās silent suffering was, in fact, less self-abasement, and more like the Gospel beatitude of meekness, what I have called transforming gentleness or fruitful nonviolence. Like her Lord, her dying was akin to the work of the water purifier. Instead of responding to stupidity, prejudice, pettiness, injustice in an aggressive, violent way, which would have continued the cycle of violence, ThĆ©rĆØse takes in all this and holds it in herself, and through the workings of grace in her deepest person, gives back instead kindness, reconciliation, peace, new life. By somehow absorbing in her person all this negativity, at great personal cost to herself, she kept the fragile congregation she so loved alive and united, for the sake of the work she so believed in, the revolutionary, till-that-time-unheard-of work of women religious giving the Spiritual Exercises. Even towards the end of her life, when she went through her ādark nightā and could be seen weeping while she prayed for hours in the chapel in Lyons, she brought into her person all the pain and suffering of the Church, her beloved France, humanity estranged from its Creator. Somehow, mysteriously, like a water filter, what emerged from her was light and peace. There is that lovely story of the troubled novice who saw ThĆ©rĆØse in the novitiate in Versailles in 1880, not knowing who the elderly religious was, only seeing somehow light emanating from her, and feeling a deep sense of peace when that older sister looked into her eyes. (3) That this process involved crucifying pain for ThĆ©rĆØse seems clear. How did she do it? Where did she get the inner strength to respond with transforming gentleness to what would have provoked many of us to retaliation or escape? One of the favorite words of our former Superior General, Fr. Adolfo Nicolas, was the word depth, depth in the midst of a world of distraction and superficiality. I believe too that depth is the only word to describe ThĆ©rĆØse Couderc. Although her vision of goodness and her Se Livrer came decades later, those two documents capture the depth of her vision and her love throughout her life. Unlike many of us who can only see the surface of things and events, ThĆ©rĆØse was blessed with a vision that pierced beneath the surface to perceive the infinite goodness of God, like āletters of gold,āĀ (4) gleaming and beautiful, present and active in the depths of all reality. And unlike those of us whose attention and desire are distracted and captured by so many lesser things, ThĆ©rĆØse was a profoundly centered woman, whose loving act of total surrender meant being so spiritually free that she held nothing back from God and lived completely from and for God. Because of the depth of her vision and the depth of her love, ThĆ©rĆØse was able to respond with depth to the events, even the most painful and difficult, of her life. Perhaps that is the reason why she so valued the ministry of the Exercises that her sisters were engaged in. It is precisely a ministry of depth that invites people to delve deeply into themselves to see the good God at work in their lives and in their world, and to respond with loving surrender to this
