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New Year’s Eve Mass | Homily

“And Mary kept all these things, reflecting on them in her heart.” Luke 2: 19 “Ang lahat ng bagay na ito ay tinandaan ni Maria at pinagdili-dili sa kanyang puso.” Lucas 2:19 Let us take our cue from Mary as we keep all these things of 2022 and reflect on them in our hearts. I ask you to consider three points: to remember the past, to hope for the future, and to commit to the present. TO REMEMBER THE PAST. First, let us ask ourselves: What have been our high and low moments for the past year? Perhaps, I can select one or two high and low moments? Are there things that I am grateful for? Can I be grateful for both high and low moments in my life? Personally, I’m very grateful that I am still alive having survived a bout with covid19. I am very grateful for having privileged access to vaccines, proper health care, and nutrition. We know that many of our people do not have the same privileged access. I look back and see how we struggled as a nation to cope with the pandemic given the inadequate government health and economic responses thus resulting in debilitating effects on people’s lives and livelihoods especially the poor. We struggled with all the typhoons and calamities that struck our nation. Like many others, I struggled with the disappointing and frustrating election outcomes as well as with the unspeakable conduct of many politicians in the campaign. These outcomes have challenged many of us to reflect even more critically of the state of our nation—the inequality, the polarization, the disinformation, the violence, and the corruption. At times, I felt a sense of despair and hopelessness. And yet, like many others I resisted giving in to the temptation to despair but chose to struggle on, to seek for the common good, to hold on to hope amid the darkness. I continued to believe that there is a lot of good in the world. One has only to recall the thousands of unheralded and selfless heroes of the pandemic who gave of themselves and even of their lives to us. TO HOPE FOR THE FUTURE. Second, as I reflect on both the high and low moments of my life and our nation, can I reflect in my heart whether there is still hope within me. In the Philippines we face seemingly insurmountable challenges—high inflation and high prices of basic commodities, low peso, stagnant wages, ongoing pandemic, precariousness of health and education, corruption, violence, political dynasties, the return to autocratic rule, and an uncertain future as a nation. We look beyond our shores to Myanmar, Ukraine, and war-torn Africa to acknowledge the grave challenges that the entire world faces. Can we honestly say we still look to the future with hope? Why should we? Is this not a false sense of hope? The recent SWS survey says that 95% are hopeful for the coming year. What kind of hope are they hanging on to? Jayeel Cornelio in his article on the Sociology of Hope says, “While hope can bolster people’s morale, it can also be deployed to protect the interests of the powerful. And so we need to ask the following questions: What exactly do Filipinos mean when they say they are hopeful? What are they hoping for? And why? … Given the inequality in this country, there’s not much worth celebrating whenever we say we are a hopeful people. On the contrary, hope is a symptom of systemic problems that have left so many desiring of the benefits of progress that only few of us get to enjoy.” We must, therefore, examine and ensure that our hope is truly Christian hope. Christian hope anchored in God’s promise which he has already fulfilled in the coming of his Beloved Son. And as the prologue of John which we heard at Christmas day and again on the last day of the year, we rejoice at this wonderful news, “And the Word became flesh, and made his dwelling among us.” He is Emmanuel—God with us. He became one of us in the flesh that he we may never again feel that our God is distant and far away from us—our concerns, needs, anxieties, frustrations, and suffering. His life, death, and resurrection assure us of the ultimate triumph of good over sin and death. TO COMMIT TO THE PRESENT. Thirdly, with this Christian hope we commit to the present moment. This is Christian hope which is 1) not passive and 2) not left to the task of any one individual or one group. Hope is not passive or inactive but pro-active and transformative. The philosopher, Hannah Arendt, believed that hope is rooted in the human capacity for action. For her, only humans are capable of action with intention and purpose. Moreover, as one prominent theologian said, “Hope is courage.” And who would best exemplify this hope for us? According to Fr. Danny Pilario, in his Christmas reflection, it is the victims of the war on drugs who are the prophets of hope for us today. He says, “I can still vividly remember what Lola Remy, (now in her 90s) said during the funeral of her son, Juan. He was killed brutally by the police in Duterte’s War on Drugs and left her seven small grandchildren. She told me with tears in her eyes: “Nais nila kaming patayin Father. Nais nila kaming mamatay. Pero hindi. Mabubuhay kami.” (They want us to die, Father, they want us dead. No, we will live). This is defiant hope. And this is the only Christmas message that is meaningful in our times.” Christian hope is DEFIANT HOPE. It can be and must be transformative of the current harsh realities of life and it looks forward to new beginnings of respect for human dignity and the rule of law. The victims from present and past regimes need to continue their struggle for justice and we are morally obligated to walk with

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Swaddled

“And this will be a sign for you: you will find an infant wrapped in swaddling clothes and lying in a manger.” You must have some ribbons from gifts you have received. You may wish to take one and wrap it around your hand. Bind the thing around your fingers to get a feel of how it is to be swaddled by strips of fabric. An infant in swaddling cloths and lying in a manger is the sign given to us of our Savior who is born for us, who is “Christ and Lord.” It is a strange sign of the One who is supposed to save us. He will be swaddled or bound again at his death. The strips of linen that are left in the empty tomb will be our sign of hope and redemption. Swaddled is also what we are. Bound is who we are, bound by strips of worries and concerns these days. We have been praying for this pandemic to end, and for the violence in Ukraine and in other parts of the world to cease. Time and again, we seem to have tangled ourselves in knots, unable to untie our lives from miseries we alone have brought upon ourselves. We swing from one crisis to the next. The cry of the poor and of the earth are stifled. To be swaddled or bound this way is hardly a sign of hope or redemption. And yet we are told by the angel to turn to the child swaddled in cloth, swaddled against the cold, lying in a manger. There is warmth to be felt beneath the layers. There is warmth for us who have been walking in the cold, walking in darkness, wrapped in guilt or shame or sorrow. Turning to the One all swaddled in warmth, we find deliverance in the child’s being bound to us for good. We find solace in knowing that God is not cold but warm to the touch, and his love is enough cover from the cold outside. When we turn to the child in a manger, we also discover our own warmth again. We too are warm inside, beneath all the layers. For all the fallen choices we have made, for all the coldness we are capable of, there is still goodness to be found in our heart. There is light for us who have been dwelling “in the land of gloom,” bound by fear or anxiety or despair. Turning to the child all swaddled in warmth, we find freedom when we offer the warmth of us to those in need. We find joy in knowing that God continues to warm to us, choosing to see the goodness of our heart. To the shepherds in the fields, the swaddled infant in a manger must have been a strange sight. In one tradition1, the practice is to prepare the first newborn lamb for Passover sacrifice by swaddling it and placing it in a feeding trough, a manger. When we turn to the child swaddled in cloth, lying in a manger, we realize that the Christmas story is at once a joyful and glorious and sorrowful mystery. The belen has the likeness of an offertory. The swaddling is for warmth as it is for sacrifice. The warmth is in the sacrifice that is offered in love. It is this sacrifice of love that gives warmth to our lives. As the child is swaddled for sacrifice, so too are we asked to prepare for a life of sacrifice. Sacrum facere. We are called to make things holy, to offer ourselves in holiness and love. The wood of the manger is the wood of the cross. As we are meant to make a loving oblation of our lives, so are we to anoint each other and our world with the love of God. The next time you wrap or open your gift, take a moment to hold the ribbons in your hand. Remember the child swaddled in ribbons of linen, lying in a manger. Whisper a simple prayer. Remember to return your life to God who has given everything to keep you warm and set you free.   Fr. Jose Ramon T Villarin, SJ Homily delivered on Christmas Eve Mass Cenacle Retreat House 24 Dec 2022 1https://catholicism.org/what-are-swaddling-clothes-and-what-is-their-significance.html

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Mary: A Special or Ordinary Figure?

Which is more important to stress: the ordinariness of Mary or her being special? Jesuit historian John O’Malley tells us during the Vatican II council that a big debate on this matter was whether or not the Church should have a separate document on Mary.  Our very own Cardinal Santos, Archbishop of Manila, led in campaigning for a separate document outside of the Church document to highlight the special character of Mary.  We see this developed in the Marian doctrines.  Her being the Mother of God, Immaculate Conception, perpetual virginity and assumption into heaven reveal that she was no ordinary person.  Others wanted a document on our Lady within Lumen Gentium, the dogmatic constitution on the Church, to highlight her role in the Church, she being the first disciple, the first to learn from Jesus, her humanity, her faith amid uncertainties, her fears, the typical biblical Mary who struggles in her faith journey.  After intense deliberations, the Council Fathers decided not to put Mary above or outside of the Church, but within the Church as Mother of the Church, a pre-eminent member of the Church, a model of the Church while maintaining her unique role in the history of salvation. As we celebrate the Immaculate Conception of Mary, her stainless conception, which incidentally is also found in the Qur’an, we see her fullness of grace as the angel Gabriel puts it in the Gospel: “Hail, full of grace! The Lord is with you.”  Indeed, she is full of grace from the moment of her conception. The Lord is with her from the time she was conceived.  With her fullness of grace and the presence of the Lord in her life, sin has no power over her.  Still, she remains to be human, with her fears and even imperfections, but she has no compulsion to sin from the first moment of her life.  This is as far as I can describe her Immaculate Conception while not getting distracted by the notion of original sin as transmitted all the way from the first parents and to her ancestors, and finally to Joaquim and Anne, her parents. Thus, in celebrating this great feast, we reaffirm her grace-filled life, the abiding presence of God in her life.  It is not so much the greatness of Mary that we celebrate this feast, but the graciousness of God.  Her Immaculate Conception will always be linked to Mary’s fiat, her “yes” to God’s invitation, her Magnificat, her humanity, her capacity to embrace the ambiguities and mysteries surrounding the life of Jesus from the annunciation of his conception to the proclamation of his resurrection, her faith journey which is Spirit-led, her role in the work of human liberation – all made possible due to God’s favor on her. Mary is so special, no doubt, and yet so ordinary at the same time. She is absolutely one with God, but also completely one like us, and one with us. Fr. Tony Moreno, SJ Homily delivered on the Solemnity of the Immaculate Conception of Our Lady Cenacle Retreat House 08 December 2022

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Protest

            The other night, I was astounded to see Maria Ressa appear on the Late Show w/ Stephen Colbert. Then yesterday morning, she appeared on NPR news with veteran journalist Judy Woodruff! How to Stand Up to a Dictator, the book she’d written, was the topic of conversation. I was transfixed on Maria Ressa just as Colbert & Woodruff were. Maria’s message was as simple, true, & eloquent as it was scary: (a) dictators bully whistle-blowers, & (b) they do so w/ big help from social media. “Free speech stifles free speech,” she said. That’s her short hand for how we’ve spewed lies all over Facebook so we can choke undesirable facts & dark history behind bad leaders we support & love. Maria’s message to America: “if this happened to us, it will also happen to you.” Her prophecy came true in 2021, when Trump supporters stormed their Capitol on January 6.             If Zechariah lived long enough to see his son, his only son, his one beloved son, turn into this camel-hair-wearing, locust-eating, desert-wandering preacher he was, natuwa kaya si Mang Kario, o nag-face-palm? “This is myson!” Gano’n kaya? Or more like, “This is my son?!” Sisters & brothers, Zechariah was priest of the Temple. He knew the Law by heart & lived accordingly: dignified, dutiful, pure. Lalo na siya. Kasi sa matagal na panahon, wala siyang anak. Malamang may alingasngas ‘yon. Priest of the Temple but childless? Walang tagapagmana ng lahi ng tatay kasi baog ang asawa? Yikes. Maybe that was why it took very long before the draw-lots fell upon Zechariah for his turn in the Holy of Holies. “Kasi may sumpa ang Diyos. Walang anak,” bulong siguro ng mga paring Marites. Well, now, he had John! Zechariah must’ve single-handedly taught him everything he knew about the Law, by word & by witness. I bet he groomed John to be Temple priest, too. Jewish sons often inherited their fathers’ professions. Lalo na kung iisa lang anak mo. Lalo na kung pari ka sa Templo…. Pero paglaki ni Juan: he wore no priestly robes, ate nothing but honey & locusts, was never recorded being anywhere near the Temple. Worst of all, he fulminated against the hierarchs, mga kauri ng tatay niya!             A few weeks ago, I had a brief but very stirring conversation about John the Baptist with a bishop I admire the most these past few years. Since our conversation, I’ve been contemplating John the Baptist more earnestly than I ever did before. I imagine John growing up seeing the glories of Temple priesthood, as well as its dark underbelly. His dad must’ve taken pains in shielding him from the latter, kasi baka ma-discourage sa pagiging pari. But John was too astute not to see & question what hierarchs dissimulated: like their lavish lifestyle, or the stealing of sacrificial animals, na imbis na sunugin sa Templo, inuuwi para ulamin ng pamilya, or their manipulating & equivocating theology to legitimize their thriving Temple negosyo. And maybe, just maybe, I imagine, John must’ve seen how his father was marginalized by his fellows, no matter how flatly his old man denied it.            No wonder John swore off Temple priesthood when he grew up. And he showed this by what he did not wear, what he did not eat, & where he did not preach. Instead, he went around baptizing people of their sins, making straight the Law that hierarchs bent out of shape. But he was sure that what he was doing was only for starters. “Because Israel, beloved Israel,” you could almost hear John say, “You won’t know what’ll hit you when the Lamb of God who takes away the sins of the world finally comes to finish what I’ve begun,” decisive, comprehensive, if painful reform of Israel, beginning w/ aiming his axe right at the root of Temple hierarchy.             Paid FB trolls may call for unity from their Secretlab Titan gaming chairs. Politicians may fight for the poor from the backseat of their Super Grandias. Clerics & professors may compose their homilies & lessons on ministry & mission while sipping an espresso by a window overlooking a piazza. But John the Baptist then & Maria Ressa today, they stand up to systematic bullies from the same ground where the bullied like themselves have fallen. They have transparent but humble vision instead of concealed but rapacious ambition. They testify & witness while they suffer, instead of flatter & massage for promotion. While hierarchs have shiny tiles & soft carpets underfoot, John & Maria have a dagger hanging over their heads. In other words, their credibility & witness are particularly powerful because they do not preach from comfort. Rather, they teach from lived & shared reality that is dangerous. Because of this, their modesty isn’t cultivated. Their slogans aren’t sappy. And their nationalism isn’t disingenuous.             As we read more about John the Baptist these coming days, we remember that real heroes give their lives to something bigger than themselves. Pretend heroes, on the other hand, sell themselves into being the biggest something in life. Real heroes act. Wannabe’s just pander.             May we never lose the spirit of protest in our lives. May the gentle Lamb of God be our courage to stand up to systematic bullies.   Homily of Fr. Arnel Aquino, SJ on the 2nd Sunday of Advent 3 December 2022 Cenacle Retreat House

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“For men, this is impossible, but for God all things are possible.” (Matthew 19:26)

Homily delivered by Fr. Adrian Danker, SJ on the occasion of Sr Christine Lam’s Perpetual Vows and the 25th Anniversary of the Foundation of the Cenacle Mission in Singapore “For men, this is impossible, but for God all things are possible” (Matthew 19:26) These words make so much sense as we gather this morning. We hear in Jesus’s words the wondrous love of God labouring in our lives to make possible the impossible. And we do believe what we hear. Thanks be to God! God who makes possible the dreams of old men come alive and true. Makes possible the visions of young men taking on flesh and form in the world. Make possible the prophecies of our sons and daughters embodied in words we hear and deeds we experience. These are not words of Scripture to hear and know. Today, we witness the truth of these words in Sr Kris making her perpetual vows and the Cenacle mission celebrating 25 years in Singapore. Truly these express God’s good, faithful and generous labour bearing fruit. Individually and together, these two celebrations are the one story of God making possible the impossible. We gather to witness this. We give thanks and celebrate with you, dear Sisters. More than this, we are here to pray that God “who gas began this good work in you may bring it to fulfilment before the day of Christ Jesus.” A perpetual profession Sr Kris makes. This 25th anniversary the Sisters of the Cenacle celebrate. These are not just outcomes of formation and mission. Rather, they are milestones in God’s long walk with each of these good, generous, and holy women. God has set them apart for us and the Church. Their work is not done yet. It continues for the promise of God’s glory is still unfolding through their loving words, their generous hands, and their big-hearted lives offered for everyone. Today God makes possible Sr Kris’s perpetual vows. God has prepared her for this over many years of formation. It began when she encountered God in a Cenacle retreat in Chiangmai many years ago. This is how, you, Sr Kris, described this encounter in your vocation story: “God met me in my brokenness, healed me and drew me into the life and community of the Cenacle.” You added: “My vocation is a response to the healing love and gentle touch of God, and because of personally meeting Jesus, I desire to give myself fully to his mission: to go and tell everyone this is Good News.” Sr Kris, we marvel how God has taken the hope-filled desire of a young woman and today brings it to fruition as you make your perpetual vows. How good God is to you! But Sr Kris can only do this because of the greater good God has made possible – the establishment and unfolding of the Cenacle mission in Singapore. Her story is woven into the richer, larger and more colourful tapestry of the Cenacle presence here. It began humbly 25 years ago when two Cenacle Sisters joined 2 Jesuits to begin spiritual direction training at the Singapore Pastoral Institute. On 2 July 1997, the then Regional Superior of the Cenacle Sisters established the first Cenacle community in Singapore. Today that superior, Sr Linda, with Sr Mel serve us so selflessly and so well. Many Sisters came and went, everyone of them serving so generously to build the Mission. Over the years, God has even made possible 3 Singaporean vocations – Sr Fran, Sr Xiaowei and Sr Kris. The works of the Cenacle today are varied and rich, all of them focussed on the care and salvation of the souls in the Ignatian tradition. How could God have made all this possible? Peter’s example in today’s Gospel passage helps us understand. He, with the other disciples, have given up everything to follow Jesus. “What will there be for us?” He asks Jesus. No one follows Jesus without first encountering him, then surrendering all to follow, and as they follow, to find themselves challenged repeatedly to ask – in the most human, humbled and graced manner – “What will there be?” This is the necessary question facing every disciple. It demands more listening, more surrendering, more trust, even more faith, especially, when the possible no longer seems possible. Such must have been your journey, Sr Kris as you yearned to make these perpetual vows. Such must also have been the trials and tensions of the Cenacle Sisters as they began and grew in Singapore. Sheltered at their first home with the Good Shepherd Sisters at Marymount. Then, sharing space with the Daughters of St Paul at Jurong West. Now at their new home at Jalan Angin Laut in the East. What helped? Not what but who – God. Paul writing to the Philippians reminds us of this. In choosing Christ, Paul proclaimed the surpassing worth of knowing Jesus as Lord; everything else pales in comparison. And they should because to know Christ Jesus is to know that has made us his own, This truth helps Paul to press on because God alone was perfecting him for mission. You and I are called to let Jesus do the same for us. Do we? Will we? Sr Kris and the Cenacle Sisters heard and still hear this same invitation from Jesus. It moved them to say “yes, Lord!” I believe they did then and do now to know Jesus more intimately, love him more intensely and follow him more closely. Their “yes” makes possible today’s celebrations. This is why Sr Kris writes, “This passage describes my formation and growth journey. Difficult as it may have been, like all religious communities and life, there were abundant graces…At the start of my juniorate, I begged the Lord to show me that his grace is ever present.” The grace Sr Kris asked for is the same grace her Sisters echo, I believe. Not for themselves but for everyone they serve. After all, isn’t

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“Remain in my love.”

Homily delivered by Fr. Adrian Danker, SJ on Sr. Xiaowei Li, rc’s Perpetual Profession of Vows on September 10, 2022 These are words parents might say when children depart for overseas studies. They might be what lovers say when committing to each other for life. You and I know these are really Jesus’s words to you and me as lover or parent, as friend and saviour. Today, they are especially meant for you, Sr Xiaowei. Jesus expresses his love in deeds, not words. He himself is Love alive and Love in action. This is why He is God – because God is love. For you, Sr Xiaowei, Jesus expresses His love to you in the most intimate of ways. It began when he gathered you to Himself to discern and live the vowed life. Today he gives you a deeper love to profess your perpetual vows. Indeed, your years of religious formation and life have been a time of cleansing you to be his completely. He has given you a new heart and a new spirit as a religious of the Cenacle. He has removed that heart of stone and led you to the new land of religious life. He has given himself to you who he calls, “My beloved.” In turn, you learned to love Him more intimately as “my God.” We also hear these truths from the Prophet Ezekiel who reminds us that God has always loved you as his own since ancient times. At the heart of all this is God’s desire for relationship with everyone. This is also God’s desire for you. So, root yourself in His love and enflesh your trust in God. Entrust yourself completely to him as you make your perpetual vows. With these vows, you express to all of us your total self-giving to God in deeds, not words. Yes, every word of the vow you will make come together as your sacrifice of love to God. Your vows then are really your self-sacrificing deed of love; it speaks louder than all the words said. Indeed, your ‘yes’ to remaining in Jesus’s love with perpetual vows are total, faithful and free. They are made in the hope of becoming Christ to all. Your ’yes,’ Sr Xiaowei is that very selfless sacrifice of love Jesus commands us to live – to lay down our lives for your friends that include you RC sisters, your family and friends and for the many God will place into your care. This is why we gather here. We want to tell you that we will remain with you in friendship. We do to support you as you deepen your ‘yes’ to live fully this love you and God share all the days of your life as a fully professed religious of the Sisters of the Cenacle. Today we celebrate with you. However, we recognize a dying to ourselves we must make. To a lesser degree, we too are laying down our lives for you. We know we must die to our wants of hoping you will have more time for us, of you staying with us in Singapore when God may call you on mission elsewhere, of our relationship as family and friends because now God has chosen you as his beloved. Yet, we rejoice as you surrender yourself to Jesus with your vows to follow Him wherever He leads you. We rejoice because we know this is possible because you and Sisters have co- discern over many years of your formation, growing and maturing in your vocation to be ready for today. Now, your Sisters affirm you are ready. Now, we witness your readiness for God and his mission. Today, all of us want to assure you that we will pray and support you as you readily and forever surrender yourself to the Lord. These vows are not an end in themselves. A member of Courage, the ministry I work for, wrote that “love is a process, not an outcome.” So, it is too with these vows. They invite you and God to continue sharing love. This is why the Lord pours his Spirit into you. This Spirit that will continue to convert you more and more into the image of Jesus for the world. We pray we will witness how you will become more Christ-like over time, and others seeing Christ in you, will sing out loud, “See how Sr Xiaowei lives; she is indeed a Christian!” Each time this happens, we will know, as many will too, the joyful truth we sang in today’s Psalm – God indeed “sends forth his Spirit and the face of the earth is renewed.” This is the mission ahead for you. You can only give what you have. So, share God’s Spirit with all. Sr Xiaowei, today you have every right to delight and sing that song of joy, “O bless the Lord my soul, bless your name for gentle is the love of the Lord.” Make this your daily song of praise – praising God for all that has been, for all that is happening today but more so for all that will come to be. We will sing this praise too. Indeed, it is right and good that delight and praise are the feelings we have today. They must be for as St Therese Couderc, your Foundress, once wrote, “The love of God desires to delight in all of us always.” And God’s delights in you, Sr Xiaowei, because today you enflesh what Mother Therese also wrote: “that surrendering oneself to God is more than to devote oneself, more than to give oneself, it is even something more than to abandon oneself to God. In a word, to surrender oneself is to die to everything and to self, to be no longer concern with self, except to keep continually turned toward God.” Thank you for your “yes” to Jesus, Sr Xiaowei. You witness to us how the love of God leads us ultimately to love

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Homily | 32nd Sunday in Ordinary Time | 2022

Over dinner in Davao last week, kuya, an RTC judge, asked an interesting question. “’Nel, I’m about to rule on a separation of a married couple. I have the report from the Church tribunal. They ruled nullity of marriage. It’s persuasive. One problem, though,” he said. “The wife is schizophrenic & she needs hospitalization. But the tribunal doesn’t stipulate if she will be financially looked after. Does canon law stipulate support for the ex after annulment?” I said I didn’t remember there being such a provision. There’s provision for child support. But none ordering support for the ex who couldn’t support him/herself after separation. “Are you going to approve the separation, kuys?” I asked. “Well,” he said, “I asked the guy & his lawyer who was going to support the woman. And both of them said they didn’t know. So, until I’m sure she’ll be financially supported, I’m going to take it slow before I rule on anything.” Then kuya shook his head. “It gets really nasty, these marriage cases. Lalo na pag pinag-awayan na ang ari-arian,” he said. “Worst, when it comes to the children.” That’s why his ruling, whatever it is, he said, must benefit all who are involved, not just the petitioner.” The Sadducees were a religious sect of Jewish aristocrats. They were major movers in Israel’s socio-political life. Their most important preoccupation was maintenance of the Temple, the beating heart of it all. So, they knew the law well, esp. Levirate marriage law, from levir, husband’s brother, or brother-in-law. Per this law, if your husband died, his single brother was required to marry you. As long as it was possible, widows were not allowed to remarry outside the clan. It was quite practical. One, whatever property the dead left behind would stay within the family. Two, the widow would be looked after & cared for by the same family. But Sadducees did not believe in the resurrection. So, their question about marriage “in the resurrection,” was suspect. It was really a reductio ad absurdum, reduction to absurdity. They took issue with something they didn’t believe in, then, they jostled it & pressed it towards the cliff’s edge or logic, in order to prove Jesus wrong & mock him on the side. But ever the gentleman, Jesus answered them, anyway. We Catholics believe in “till death do us part” because in the afterlife, the very presence of Jesus, the Sacrament of sacraments, already fulfills what earthly sacraments celebrate: the saving presence & mission of Christ. In matrimony, spouses make visible to each other & to community the love Christ bears for the Church. But in the afterlife, all love is fulfilled & perfected by the very presence of the Triune God. So, there’s no need to symbolize “invisible grace” through “visible realities,” which is how we often define sacrament. In the afterlife, we share in the divine life immediately & directly. So, union with God over there excels & transcends any marriage, friendship, partnership on earth—in the superabundance of grace. Based on Jesus’ whole disposition towards the Sadducees, though, I wouldn’t put it past him to have thought: “Alam n’yo, bago n’yo problemahin ‘yang issue ng kasal sa langit, atupagin muna kaya natin ang maraming issue sa buhay may-asawa dito sa lupa?” At the time, Jewish men divorced their wives for the flimsiest reasons, like, she talked too much, or didn’t cook very well, or her face had become wearisome. Plus, this whole thing about wives being merely pushers of children out into the world, to assure their husbands’ lineage. They weren’t tutored beyond the rudiments. You didn’t need much education to fire up a stove, or squeeze oil out of olives, or knead dough, or suckle a baby. So, the Sadducees’ question about marriage in the afterlife was typical of their blindness. Sitting high on their aristocratic, pious, male perch, they were sightless of the real distress & drudgery that Jewish wives had to pull themselves through every darn day. For many years, to this day, much debate swirls around marriage, still: indissolubility vs. solubility; who should get married vs. who shouldn’t; what to call a marriage (i.e., only between male & female) vs. what to not call it (i.e. between same gender); what’s within boundaries in procreation (i.e. natural contraception) vs. what’s immoral (i.e. artificial contraception), etc. Very often, we, Churchmen, are asked for our “ruling.” And we do make a ruling, but often from high on our perch, off & away from what’s really happening to married couples & their families. When in truth, marami pa kaming kailangang atupagin, kailangan aralin, saliksikin; marami pa kaming kailangang pakinggan muna, damayan, intindihin, before we make any statements or preach any morals on marriages. I guess, I could learn from kuya. Unless he’s sure that his ruling will benefit all of who are involved, not just the complainant, all—he will not let that gavel fall easily on the sounding block. In other words, rule from down on the ground, on the earth. Not from the “heavenly” perch.   Homily of Fr. Arnel Aquino, SJ on the 32nd Sunday in Ordinary Time 5 November 2022 Cenacle Retreat House

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Surrender

          There were several things I asked dad for as a child that he never bought me. He either said no, or not react, or said, “Sisirain mo lang ‘yan.” I wanted a toy robot for the longest time. “No.” There was a time I loved having smooth, shiny things in my pocket, like a stone, a small tile, a sigay from sungka. One time, I was drawn to my uncle’s mini-Zippo lighter, small & shiny. So, I asked dad to buy me one. I promised I’d never light it. I just wanted it. He glared his disbelief & his no. When cousins loaned us their Atari, kuya & I asked for one of our own. “Sisirain n’yo lang ‘yan.” There was a whole stretch in my life when I begrudged dad his many no’s to what I believed I needed from him, both visible & invisible, especially because I earned it by behaving well, doing well in school, bringing back medals. But without being aware of it, I actually developed a transactional notion of my relationship w/ dad: make dad more & more proud, he’d say less no’s & more yeses.           It’s not entirely our fault, sisters & brothers, that many of us have unwittingly transmuted this transactionality to our relationship w/ God. Doing that, if unintentionally, we’ve started believing that God is a meritocratic God, & the modus he operates on is meritocracy. Remember how we sometimes joke & say, “We’re doing this to earn pogi points in heaven”? Or say, “Swerte n’yo naman, may pari kayo sa pamilya. May tiket na kayo sa langit.” Or when we tell children, “’Wag malikot sa church. Papa Jesus will get enggri!” Or, “If you’re good boy/girl, happy si Papa God. If bad boy/girl, sad si Papa God.” The more rosaries, the more Mary will intercede for us. The longer we pray, the faster we get the delivery from heaven’s Lazada. It has even leaked into our works of mercy. “Help the poor & you will ‘go to heaven.’” A meritocratic God is one whose goodness towards us depends on our prior meritorious acts. Na para bang God’s default is neutral. We do a meritorious act first, & only then does our merit switch God on, whereupon he bestows grace, favor, blessings, accordingly. Even better: we put ourselves deliberately through hardship & difficulty, all the more we poise God towards signing our request!           Today, Jesus’ friends ask him to increase their faith. Luke doesn’t mention why. But in Matthew, this happens after they failed to exorcise a boy. So, they believe their failure was due to a shortfall of faith. These are very good people, by the way, very sincere & desirous to save a boy from a demon. Then again, doesn’t a boy’s healing depend more on God’s Providence rather than the amount of fire-power that the disciples believe they lack due to their faith deficit? Kasi gano’n ba ‘yon? Lakasan n’yo faith n’yo, lalakasan din ng Diyos kapangyarihan n’yo. There’s something a little off in there. Kaya siguro sinabi ni Hesus, “Huh? Even if your faith is infinitesimal, you could uproot this huge tree,” which I perceive is another way of saying kahit na kakaunti lang faith mo, that’s not going to stop God from doing even greater things than this for someone he loves who is sick.           Eh, bakit pa tayo magdadasal sa Diyos, kung alam na naman niya kung ibibigay niya sa atin o hindi ang hiling natin? Well, first of all, prayer is not just petition, right? It’s part of our relating to & with God, both as individuals & as a community, along with good works, acts of charity, compassion, etc. But secondly, we should not stop asking God for what we need just because, as we say, God already knows what we need before we ask. No.           When we keep praying for the grace we need (key phrase, “keep praying”), we realize more & more deeply how totally, desperately, endlessly dependent we are on God. And you know what, sisters & brothers, as many of you have already discovered by now, the more we realize in prayer how deeply, desperately, & endlessly dependent we are on God—it’s such a mysterious, miraculous thing—that we also increasingly sense how deeply, desperately, & endlessly kind-hearted & loving, generous & caring God has always been to us, all this time. Kaya tuloy, lumalalim ang ating pananampalataya. Allow me to repeat that. When we keep praying for the grace we need (key phrase, “keep praying”), God takes us to that place where we realize how totally, desperately, endlessly dependent we are on his goodness. But the longer we’re there, the clearer we see how loving & generous God has always been to us, anyway, more than we deserve or ask for. So, our faith deepens. We want more faith not so much to merit his reward. Rather, we want more faith because it makes us surrender to God, who has, nevertheless, been unfailing & relentless in goodness & providence, much more than we even deserve. That’s what’s behind Jesus’ parable in the 2nd part of today’s Gospel. We will always be only servants to the Master. We do what the Master obliges us to do. But it’s his will that will bring everything to a good end. Faith is not so much to earn or buy or finagle the Master’s prize. Faith means surrender to the Master’s goodness. So, dad never gave me a robot, a Zippo, an Atari, & then some, despite my most importunate begging. Only years after I left home did I progressively realize, hey, my dad started me off on Peanuts comics, then, Hardy Boys, then, a whole set of Collier’s Encyclopedia, w/ a 4-volume set of Medical Encyclopedia; then, signed me up for piano school even as it took away

General, Homilies, Soul Food

A Revenge of God’s Infinite Goodness

The story of St Thérése Couderc which the Cenacle sisters know by heart is a revenge in the end of God’s infinite goodness. She went through so many humiliations in life often caused by ecclesiastical authorities and her companions in the congregation – people who invoke the name of Jesus!  After a rather rosy start of her religious life, one thing led to another: the death of Fr Terme, her co-founder of the congregation; the split between the Sisters of Saint Regis and the Religious of the Cenacle; the financial woes following the failed promise of a lady to cover the built chapel after her family opposed the donation; then a law suit ensued but the sisters lost the case, and Thérèse as the Superior General was blamed by her companions for all the mess. The tragedies did not end here.  A string of bad calls followed.  The Bishop appointed a novice who was a wealthy widow to replace her.  This was a disaster, and thank God, it was short-lived, and the new superior had to be replaced.  It is said the Jesuit advisers replaced her “with a succession of wealthy women.” A Jesuit provincial was involved in the appointment of Mother Contenet as Superior General.  She made bad decisions like sending away experienced sisters from the community for unknown reasons so that only Thérèse and another older nun were left in the convent.  She was restricted from giving retreats, a ministry she so loved doing.  The novices were made to believe that Mother Contenet was the foundress of the congregation, and not Thérèse.  It all seemed like an attempt to isolate her and get rid of her influence in the congregation.  In the meantime, Thérèse continued her labors in obscurity, but at some point, she was made superior for a short time in Paris and Tournon.  It would have been tempting for her to fight back and resist the marginalization, but she took the path of Jesus to Calvary.  After the superiors who were against her had died, her true place in the congregation was restored as her life, writings and reflections showed the depth of her spirituality and holiness. In the Gospel, Jesus says: “unless the grain of wheat falls to the earth and dies, it remains alone; but if it dies, it bears much fruit.”  This is the life of Thérèse, a progressive dying to self so that others, her congregation, and those she accompanied may live.  It is a complete and prophetic participation in the paschal mystery of Christ.  In her well-known writing, she says: “To surrender oneself is to die to everything and to self, to be no longer concerned with self except to keep it continually turned towards God.” This is not just an ideal for her.  She lived it to the full. Fr Adolfo Nicolás says that classic saints have something in common, that is, they all have a capacity to give themselves totally and absolutely to God.  Saints like Teresa of Avila, John of the Cross, Ignatius of Loyola, Francis Xavier and so many others are so focused and centered on God and the mission entrusted to them.  Thérèse likewise belongs to the list of classic saints mentioned by Fr Nico.  She had a singleness of vision. She was completely focused on God and the mission of leading people to the goodness of Lord through spiritual accompaniment and retreat giving.  There is no trace of egoism in her even amid humiliations. The grace that sustained her is not sheer will power nor human effort.  It is the infinite goodness of God that kept her going. It is the same graciousness of God that the Lord speaks to Moses in the first reading: “I will be gracious to whom I will be gracious and will show mercy on whom I will show mercy.” Thérèse speaks of the same goodness of God: “without which there would be no goodness, neither in people nor in other creatures.”  We encounter the goodness of God in everything and in everywhere. In our world where distractions, disappointments and distressing moments abound and at times triggered by companions and well-meaning people, St Thérèse could be our inspiration and courage.  The goodness of God may seem absent or defeated, but it is there.  It surfaces and resurfaces, not always in our own terms, but in God’s. St Thérèse Couderc, pray for us. Homily of Fr. Antonio (Tony) Moreno, SJ on the Feast Day Mass of Saint Thérèse Couderc 26 September 2022 Cenacle Retreat House

General, Homilies, Jubilee, Soul Food

Sr. Mari’s Jubilee

Homily delivered by Fr. Roger Champoux, SJ on the occasion of Sr Mari’s Golden Jubilee Celebration It seems to be the Jubilee Season! I got curious and tried to find out about this word “jubilee” when we “jubilate” and celebrate.  When did we learn to “jubilate”? The term comes from Hebrew and refers to the horn of a ram, which was used like a trumpet to mark important Jewish celebrations. And if you are also curious, you will find the word “jubilee” in the Book of Leviticus (chapter 25), yes, Leviticus, not the most interesting book of the Bible! The Jubilee was actually an amazing invention of Israel. It was first of all related to creation: it came after “seven times seven years,” which makes 49 years, something like the fullness of time. It was meant as a feast for the people, especially the poor. The people were to blow the trumpet in the whole country on that Day of the Great Forgiveness and proclaim “liberation for all the inhabitants.” They were to recall not only the gift of Creation but also the liberation from slavery in Egypt and do various things to restore peace and justice in their Land. This is what Jesus is alluding to during his opening SONA in the Temple of Nazareth: “The Spirit of the Lord is upon me (the Spirit of Creation and Re-Creation evidently), he has anointed me to bring the good news to the poor, to proclaim liberty to captives, (…) to proclaim a year of favor (grace) from the Lord.” This is the Jubilee Year, the Good News, the Year of Grace and Freedom, the time of the Kingdom… Even if in reality, that famous “Jubilee Year” may not have been really celebrated as it was intended, it is important to remember that it was a reminder not only of the gift of Creation but also of the gift of freedom granted by Yahweh to His people—freedom from oppression, from poverty, from injustice, from all forms of evil. It is a celebration of God’s active presence in the life of His people and a reminder that we have to live accordingly, in gratitude and in service. And this liberation, from Egypt and slavery, brought along the gift of the Promised Land. The Jubilee brings with it a grandiose vision of God’s Love for us and of his Dream for us. How far are we from Sr. Mari’s Jubilee? Her jubilee, all our silver and gold and platinum and sometimes diamond jubilees, are small and simple, but they belong to a much bigger story, the presence of God in our lives and history. And today, we honor the gift of Mary, a simple girl in her family and culture but a great gift for us and for our human family. It is her birthday today: one more child born into the world… simple and poor and unknown… But she was to have a major role in God’s dream for us: to let him be even more the “Emmanuel,” the God with us, the God like us who spoke our human language. Every little jubilee re-opens our minds not only to our own stories, simple as they are, but to the presence and action of a loving God who is always finding ways to bring us to Him and to one another. It happened to Mary, it happened to Mari, it happens to each of us. Each one of us has a little part to play in this Great Drama of Holy History, and we “jubilate” with gratitude when we remember this. So our jubilees belong to a much bigger story, from the gift of creation to the gift of Jesus and the Kingdom, and of course, of his Mother, our Mother too. No wonder we “jubilate” in a Jubilee: we remember, and we are filled with gratitude. And we renew our desire to be of the Great Dream of God for each ad everyone of us.   Nativity of the Blessed Virgin Mary Roger Champoux SJ Cenacle Retreat House 8 Sep 2022  

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